the Crossroads

In Memory of Becky, the facts:

I would like all who read this to understand who Becky is and was.

Becky started with the screen-name of Dreamer, back in 2002, then when she began a spirit journey, she changed her name to divineone.  In honor, of her Father above. When her computer crashed, she became Gdswhitedove. Those who frequented yahoo "Christian" chats knew her also as "Rebekah42000-at-yahoo-dot-com"

I have never ever known anyone like Becky, who also went by Becca for short.  Becky was born with a disease of the body and skin: lymphedema and elephantitis, and it was from the neck downwards. Becky wasn't bothered by her disease as much as others were bothered by it. She took it in stride to those who just didn't know any better, than to poke fun at her. She had a forgiving heart and spirit, and taught whoever would listen about her disease. Unfortunately for Becky, the doctors didn't catch it ontime, and it became incurable at her young age, when the doctors finally figured out what was wrong, it had set in permanently.  That didn't stop her love for the Lord. When she began following the path of Christ, she was given a gift of "love". A deep agape love for those in need.

I was one of those who she taught well of agape love.

In 2002, Becky and I met at a Christian site, then when she joined PPP, she invited me here, when I was (Grasshopper).  When I became homeless, during a rough spot, she took me in, gave me a home, and we became better friends and sisters in the faith.

One day, when she wrote me an email, telling me what a blessing I was to her..I wrote in Big letters:

 

Nope U R!!!!

 

Since then we always ended our emails and chats (when we had chats) Nope U R...

It became our theme of love for each other.

Yesterday while going through a few things she left me to care of for her, I found a pretty little teddy bear with a sign in her writing... Nope U R!!!  I cried for a bit, then said allowed, Nope sis, U R, my blessing and my reward, and dog-gone it sis, I was supposed to be first!

I will never forget Becky, I love her so very much, and even though I am happy she is with Jesus, it doesn't make the loss of her physical being any less hard to bear.

I love you Becky. Be happy with Jesus!

 

Gone to be with Jesus now

 

Love you sis!

 "Grasshopper"